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Rocky Face, GA
September 5, 2025
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Members opened up about the stigma associated with diabetes, with many sharing that while they personally haven't experienced significant... Read more

Members opened up about the stigma associated with diabetes, with many sharing that while they personally haven't experienced significant judgment around their diabetic condition, they've faced far more severe stigma around mental illness, smoking-related lung disease, and weight-related health assumptions. Several members described painful experiences of being shamed by family members who blamed them for their diabetes or made hurtful comments about weight and lifestyle, with many finding healing through eventual apologies, setting boundaries, and recognizing that such judgments stem from ignorance rather than truth. A recurring theme was the importance of remembering that diabetes is a condition of how the body processes insulin and not a reflection of character, with many members choosing to share their diagnosis only with their inner circle and medical team to avoid unsolicited opinions or assumptions.

A DiabetesTeam Member

Hugs to Paul331 & Laurie4 have a great werk

September 8, 2025
A DiabetesTeam Member

@A DiabetesTeam Member

I agree with you.
There is so much fake in this world. 💪

September 5, 2025
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Unfortunately, diabetes comes with several common misconceptions that contribute to stigma. One of the biggest myths is that people with diabetes somehow "caused" their condition through poor lifestyle choices. In reality, diabetes development involves many factors beyond an individual's control, including family history Show Full Answer

Unfortunately, diabetes comes with several common misconceptions that contribute to stigma. One of the biggest myths is that people with diabetes somehow "caused" their condition through poor lifestyle choices. In reality, diabetes development involves many factors beyond an individual's control, including family history, age, ethnicity, gut health, and stress levels.

Here are the main sources of diabetes stigma:
• People often wrongly assume diabetes only affects those with obesity
• Some believe having diabetes means a person made poor life choices
• Healthcare workers may unconsciously stigmatize patients
• Family and friends may treat people with diabetes differently, speaking slower or louder as if their intelligence is affected This stigma can have serious consequences. When people feel judged or blamed, they may be less likely to seek proper medical care or support. Family members and friends sometimes become "diabetes police," monitoring food choices and blood sugar checks in ways that feel invasive and unhelpful, even when well-intentioned.

Remember: diabetes does not define you as a person. While managing diabetes requires attention and care, it's important to know that experiencing stigma is not your fault, and you deserve support and understanding from others.

September 5, 2025
A DiabetesTeam Member

@ Nan22 sorry to learn about your horrible experience although it ends up perfectly well.Hugs for sharing so that others will learn from your mistakes. Best wishes for the weekend

September 6, 2025 (edited)
A DiabetesTeam Member

Diabetes doesn’t mean someone is “unhealthy” or “lazy.” It means their body processes insulin differently. Period

September 5, 2025

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